5d 荒谬的时代没有正确的生活
云雾中的孩子 (2020) [电影] 豆瓣 TMDB
Những đứa trẻ trong sương
8.5 (42 个评分) 导演: Ha Le Diem
其它标题: Những đứa trẻ trong sương / Children of the Mist
Di is a 12-year-old girl from the mist-shrouded mountains of northern Vietnam. She belongs to the Hmong, an ethnic minority in which girls get married at a very young age. This is often preceded by a controversial “bride-napping,” where the girl is abducted by her future husband on New Year’s Eve. Negotiations between the families follow.
This also happened to Di’s sister and their mother, so it doesn’t seem strange that in preparation the women and girls discuss sex and married life without embarrassment. But Di also goes to school, where she learns very different values. And in her own way, even Di’s mother tries to warn her daughter about child marriage.
Director Diem Ha Le tells a story about the clash between ancient customs and modern values, in a place where children from a traditional culture also have access to the outside world. Her first full-length documentary is a moving film about the challenges faced by a young Hmong girl, but above all is about a teenager with a strong character, and who is not just a victim.

看过 云雾中的孩子 🌕🌕🌕🌕🌗
idfa 2021重映。越南乡村抢亲习俗纪录片。撞档放弃了lab那个中国酷儿短片集来看这部,还是觉得长片更能触动我一些,确实才看了开头就无能狂哭。小女孩们过家家竟然就是模拟抢亲,一个个扮演妹妹扮演妈妈如此娴熟,滴水不漏讲出卖女儿的话,和后来真实抢亲发生时计算要用10kg鸡肉100kg猪肉30kg酒来办婚礼的亲妈亲爸如出一辙。
总之14岁的Di冒着亲妈的婊子辱骂长大,同时接受亚女熟悉的那套家庭煤气灯(“咱俩你是妈还是我是妈”“你自己决定吧别怨我”)和嫁人后要相夫教子种地喂猪思维的双重拉扯。奇迹般地,女孩还是直觉不想结婚,抢婚被几个大人架走时拼尽全力嘶喊挣扎,导演也在这时忍不住出手干预。最后搬来了学校老师,科普一通18岁才是法定结婚年龄给赖着不走的男方,分手酒终于喝了,女孩被辣得直吐。

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