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The Antidote
Douban
Burkeman, Oliver publishing house: Faber & Faber 2012 - 11
For a civilisation so fixated on achieving happiness, we seem remarkably incompetent at the task. Self-help books don't seem to work. Few of the many advantages of modern life seem capable of lifting our collective mood. Wealth - even if you can get it - doesn't lead to happiness. Romance, family life and work often seem to bring stress as much as joy. We can't even agree on what 'happiness' means. So are we engaged in a futile pursuit? Or are we just going about it the wrong way? What if it's our constant efforts to feel happy that are making us miserable? In this fascinating new book, Oliver Burkeman introduces us to an unusual collection of people - experimental psychologists and Buddhists, terrorism experts, spiritual teachers, business consultants, philosophers - who share a single, surprising way of thinking about life. They argue that in our personal lives, and in society at large, it's our constant effort to be happy that is making us miserable. And that there is an alternative, 'negative path' to happiness and success that involves embracing failure, pessimism, insecurity and uncertainty - the very things we spend our lives trying to avoid. Thought-provoking, counter-intuitive and ultimately uplifting, The Antidote is a celebration of the power of negative thinking.

想读《The Antidote》艾莉森王:我最庆幸自己读过的三本书(30岁以前)
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作者:艾莉森王(来自豆瓣)
来源:https://www.douban.com/note/763315507/

作者从八个章节,七个角度解读了当下社会对成功对进步渴求的负面效果:

我们太过努力想要快乐,所以无法快乐;
古希腊斯多葛学派与佛教的悲观制胜,拥抱悲伤;
制定目标的反作用;
无我与有我,当下的力量;
放弃安全才是最安全的;
世界上的大多数事情都以失败告终;
面对死亡才能生活;
本书完全是以负面情绪为导向,来探索人生终极诉求——幸福的秘密。

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豆瓣写真相册 - Narcissus & Goldmund:https://www.douban.com/photos/album/1689817809

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