A Change of Heart (1998)

A woman discovers that her long-time husband has been hiding a secret - he's gay.
Joe Marshall is the perfect father and husband and is respected and admired in his community. But Joe is living a lie, a lie he has tried to keep suppressed throughout his marriage. It is only when Elaine catches her husband in bed with his lover that Joe's lie rips through the facade. Joe's lover is a young man. This film is an honest, moving account of a woman struggling to cope with the discovery that her husband and father of her two children, the man that she has worked side by side is gay. The movie sees all four members of the family struggle to integrate this new complication into their family life.