Respect one who proclaims for herself or himself, asxeuality is not a shame, but prejudice or arrogant is. I'm sad to hear that asexuality even been marginalized by queer community, and it's even bad to find that people attack each other behind so called terms like gay, lesbian, transgender etc. YOU ARE COWARD!

Find the way you want to connect with others and pave the road with reality(it's not easy), be they good or bad!