爱在三部曲台词简记及其他
一
男主Jesse的拍摄计划:365天,找365个人,拍摄自己的24小时,整年播放。
Celine -All those mundane and boring things everybody has to do everyday of their fucking life?
Jesse -I was going to say the poetry of life.
维也纳的公交车上,男主提议两人进行Q&A 100%honesty
以下是两人互相提问,M指代男主,W指代女主。
M: first sexual feeling
W: have you ever in love?
M: what pisses you off?
W: what’s problem of you?[人生中当前最棘手或最关切的问题]
Celine:我总觉得,我的生活只是一个将要死亡的老太太的回忆。
Celine:I always feel the pressure of being this strong and independent icon of womanhood and not making life look like revolving around some guy. But loving someone and being loved, means so much to me. I mean everything we do in life, isn't it a way to be loved a little more?
(或许就是因为这种想法,女主最后才很大程度上陷入了婚姻和同居生活。尽管保有工作和人格)
Celine的手在两个人紧凑的空间里挥了挥:神不在你,也不在我,不在任何人身上,而在你和我之间。
(人和人之间的空间中,能制造出足够神性的事物)
Jesse: Life is so finite…it makes our time and specific moments so important.
Jesse: Why do you think everybody thinks relationships supposed to last forever anyway?
(男主这个发问确实引人深思。这里的辩证法是,必须接受人们之间分离是一种常态,才能更长久地维系关系。人和人的关系不会当然地永远存续的,而如果强求难免产生执念。但分离是常态,不意味着不忠就是正当的。)
Jesse: (some people)they are sick to death of being around themselves.
开始以非常日常且真实的开头对白。转折点:feel about traveling around Europe, idea of TV show
对话主题:童年,死亡,宗教,科技,音乐,女人和男人,绘画,诗
二
两人时隔九年见面。男主结婚生子,女主32岁仍然单身。在咖啡馆:
-I like that we’re having this ever-renewing desires.
-It’s OK to want things, as long as you aren’t pissed off if you don’t get them.
话题:死亡和轮回,男人和女人,爱和性
Sex: At least now we don’t have to pretend each new sex experience is like, a life changing event.
Marriage: men need to feel essential and they don’t need more.
I am an independent woman but I still need someone to love and to be loved. But when I do it, it quickly make me nauseous, I’m really happy when I’m on my own. Even being alone, its better than sitting next to a lover and feeling lonely.
(显然第三部男主也没能让她过上更好的生活。但是他们那时候已经stuck with each other了)
三
两人同居,共同抚养孩子,因为男主想要从巴黎搬回美国,女主感受到分手前兆:
You’re unhappy, blame it on another person, resentment grows, everything falls apart and you break up.
餐桌上回忆一位已故老人:Not too consumed with romantic love, friend and work brought to her the most happiness.
On the end of the day, its not the love of one other person that matters. It’s the love of life.
…so sick of the idea of soulmate and you make another one complete.
男主一贯回避真正的交流,Celine:
it’s like every time I try to connect, you’re making a joke.
Woman explore for eternity in the vast garden of sacrifice. 女性总在牺牲中寻找永恒。
(社会用来消耗女性的说辞)
两人吵架中提及情绪与理性,情绪并不意味着不理性而伪装成理性的冷漠往往是不符合人的理性的。
三部之间的呼应和连续之处:
l 三部电影的开头,男主总是提出一个自己的新企划,如节目、书籍。
l 女主前两部相遇时都有一个提问:what’s problem of you?[她可能总能感觉到,他更深处是心事重重的。]男主每次打趣岔开话题。第三次女主直接指出I try to connect and you’re making a joke.
l 前两部当中都有非常精彩的眼神戏:两个人同处一个狭窄的空间,没有对视,但眼神总是彼此交替流连在对方身上。第三部中在河边安排了类似的场景,但两个人都不忍、无法再直视彼此。
其他想法:
生育或许不过是一场合谋的骗局。
生活不都关乎两性议题,婚姻、性和爱,但随着年纪增加终究会占比越来越大。
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