What happens when 300 lesbians from around the world attend the largest United Nations conference? How did two busloads of lesbians headed to an underground nightclub help spark the birth of a lala (LBT) movement in China? At the 1995 Fourth World Conference on Women in Beijing, the first ever lesbian tent at an UN NGO Forum was created. Emerging from hidden shadows of shame and invisibility, Chinese lalas began a hard-fought path of deliverance from themselves, from family, and from an apprehensive environment. In doing so, they sought empowerment and change as they explored concepts and issues from self-affirmation to rights consciousness. The film powerfully moves forward to the present day and shows the drastic change in today’s young feminist lalas – their challenging of sexism and homophobia with daring public street actions on subways – a parallel action to their forerunners in 1995, with much vigor and defiance 20 years later.

表面看来，金智英（郑有美 饰）是一个生活在幸福之中的家庭主妇，有一个收入不菲又温柔体贴的丈夫郑大贤（孔侑 饰）和一个非常可爱的女儿，在波澜不惊的日子里享受着每一天的平淡和安稳。 实际上，金智英的内心早就如同地震一般的产生了天崩地裂的动摇，在她的身上背负着无比沉重的枷锁。婆婆面前，她要扮演逆来顺受的好儿媳。丈夫面前，她又是无条件支持他的贤妻。面对女儿，金智英必须隐藏起脆弱，做她无坚不摧的母亲。那么，真正的金智英究竟在哪儿呢？长久的压抑和挣扎中，金智英患上了心理疾病，郑大贤决定和妻子一起接受心理咨询，共同面对命运设置给他们的难题。