selfhelp
The Fine Art Of Small Talk
Douban
Debra Fine publishing house: Piatkus 2006 - 1
Communication expert Debra Fine reveals the techniques and strategies anyone can use to make small talk - in any situation. Do you spend an abnormal amount of time hiding in the bathroom or hanging around the buffet table at social gatherings? Does the thought of striking up a conversation with a stranger make your stomach do flip-flops? Do you sit nervously through job interviews waiting for the other person to speak? Are you nervous when it comes to networking? Then it's time you mastered The Fine Art of Small Talk. With practical advice and conversation 'cheat sheets,' The Fine Art of Small Talk will help you learn to feel more comfortable in any type of social situation, from lunch with your boss to going out on a date to a cocktail party where you don't know a soul. The Fine Art of Small Talk teaches you how to:* Start a conversation even when you think you have nothing to say; Steady your shaky knees and dry your sweaty palms; Prevent awkward pauses and lengthy silences; Adopt listening skills that will make you a better conversationalist; Approach social functions with confidence; Feel more at ease at parties, meetings and at job interviews; TUrn every conversation into an opportunity for success
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March 27, 2023
本质上是低情商、略Introvert社畜的生存指南。书中列出了一些自我检视的问题,而我基本每条都踩雷了。比如或主动或被动地参加event时只和认识的人聊天...(Author be like "Then what's the point of attending such events," 别骂了别骂了) 北美真得是个人情社会。不要害怕networking,不要怕向上社交被拒绝。Be sincere,要记住senior是享受“好为人师”的. People love talking about themselves and sharing their experience. Take the risk, Be proactive. Rejection doesn't really HURT.
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