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I Think I Love My Wife (2007) WikiData IMDb TMDB Douban
I Think I Love My Wife
other title: 我想我爱我妻 / 我想我爱我老婆
Richard Cooper is a married man and father of two who is just plain bored with married life. Not getting any sex from his wife, he resorts to ogling random women on the street to the point that he takes lunch late to look at them. When old crush Nikki Tru visits his office to get a reference letter, she becomes obsessed with Cooper and they begin a complicated relationship.
Meet the Robinsons (2007)
Meet the Robinsons
7.7 (52 ratings) director: 斯蒂芬·J·安德森 actor: 安吉拉·贝塞特 / Daniel Hansen
other title: 로빈슨 가족 / ルイスと未来泥棒
Lewis, a brilliant young inventor, is keen on creating a time machine to find his mother, who abandoned him in an orphanage. Things take a turn when he meets Wilbur Robinson and his family.
Flushed Away (2006)
Flushed Away
7.4 (38 ratings) director: Sam Fell / 大卫·博维斯 actor: Hugh Jackman / Kate Winslet
other title: 플러쉬 / マウス・タウン ロディとリタの大冒険
London high-society mouse, Roddy is flushed down the toilet by Sid, a common sewer rat. Hang on for a madcap adventure deep in the sewer bowels of Ratropolis, where Roddy meets the resourceful Rita, the rodent-hating Toad and his faithful thugs, Spike and Whitey.
Crazy, Stupid, Love. (2011)
Crazy, Stupid, Love
7.0 (310 ratings) director: 格伦·费卡拉 / 约翰·里夸 actor: 史蒂夫·卡瑞尔 / 瑞恩·高斯林
other title: 크레이지 스투피드 러브 / ラブ・アゲイン
Cal Weaver is living the American dream. He has a good job, a beautiful house, great children and a beautiful wife, named Emily. Cal's seemingly perfect life unravels, however, when he learns that Emily has been unfaithful and wants a divorce. Over 40 and suddenly single, Cal is adrift in the fickle world of dating. Enter, Jacob Palmer, a self-styled player who takes Cal under his wing and teaches him how to be a hit with the ladies.
为何家会伤人(升级版) Douban
7.0 (27 ratings) author: 武志红 publishing house: 北京联合出版公司 2014 - 7
本书为经典畅销书《为何家会伤人》的全新升级版。该书出版七年来,在读者中引起持久的震荡,好评如潮。在本书中,作者作了全新的修订,并新增六万字内容,细致入微地揭示出中国家庭的运行机理。作者用最温暖有力的文字贴着当下读者的心,凭借十年行业经验,带领为家庭关系所困的万千读者一起踏上自我治愈与寻求幸福和自由的旅程。
心理抚养 Douban
author: 李玫瑾 publishing house: 上海三联书店 2021 - 6
【编辑推荐】
心理抚养比物质抚养更重要 性格比能力更决定命运
大人只有好好学习 孩子才能天天向上
家庭是人生的起点 人的许多问题源于早年养育
父母亲自陪伴孩子成长 比只给孩子挣钱更有价值
人的胃口是喂出来的,脾气是带出来的,观念是唠叨出来的,残忍是孤弱无助熬出来的,无耻是百般迁就宠溺出来的。
爱孩子,并不是一味地顺从他,稍懂事起就要教他行为有规矩,明白可为和不可为的界限。
人们一直认为“育”只是用嘴给他讲道理,却忽略了还可以通过动作和各种接触来进行,即“养”的过程本身就是育。
与不同的人友好相处,这种社会行为确实需要学习,但前提是父母要有意地培养他的这种行为,让他建立一套与人相处的正确方式。
【内容简介】
心理抚养是一种全新的育儿理念。在养育孩子的过程中,父母往往特别重视孩子是否吃饱穿暖、身高体重如何、是否活泼健康,把这些当成爱的全部,却因为疏于了解、关注婴幼儿、青少年的心理健康,从而导致孩子在成长过程中产生了一些难以逆转的心理困境,特别是进入青春期后,会出现拒绝交流、出走、顶撞、不合群、学习困难等问题。对此,心理学专家李玫瑾在《心理抚养》一书中向父母传递了这样一种理念:养育孩子,心理抚养比物质抚养更加重要。作者认为,心理抚养主要包括情感、性格、观念、能力四个方面,父母必须参与心理抚养的全过程,通过陪伴、关爱、获得孩子的依恋感,进而获得管教孩子、“立规矩”的资本。家长通过参与孩子成长,进行情感抚育,教他做人做事,这种心理抚养比满足孩子的物质需求更重要。“父母亲自陪伴孩子成长,比给孩子挣钱更有价值”,我们不能错过塑造孩子未来人生的最佳和最关键时期。
April 16, 2022 read
养孩子,做父母,看两种人。一种是你想成为的,一种是你不想成为的。李玫瑾老师的书里,是通过给你展现你不想成为的样子,来反观如何做好父母。
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