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Letter from an Unknown Woman (2004) WikiData IMDb TMDB Douban
一个陌生女人的来信
★ 6.9 (243 ratings) director: 徐静蕾 actor: 徐静蕾 / 姜文 …
other title: 一个陌生女人的来信 / 미지의 여인에게서 온 편지 …
Peking, 1948. A winter night. A man returns home to find a letter awaiting him written by a woman before her death. in the letter she tells him the story of her love for him -a life-long passion that has not diminished over time, but one that he has never known. her story spans 18 years from the moment she -then a 13 year-old girl- sets her eyes on her new neighbor. she tells their brief but passionate love in her youthi the hardship she goes through raising their child alone, and their final encounter after the war, during which the man fails tor ecognize her and one which leaves her in despair. Now having lost her son, she no longer has the courage to live on. Only in a letter is she capable of telling him everything, for the first and the last time. shaken by the letter, the man searches his memory for the nameless woman.
A Chinese Odyssey Part Two - Cinderella (1995)
西遊記大結局之仙履奇緣
★ 8.9 (2037 ratings) director: 刘镇伟 actor: 周星驰 / 吴孟达 …
other title: 大话西游之大圣娶亲 / 大話西遊之仙履奇緣 …
This sequel to "Pandora's Box" continues director Jeffrey Lau's adaptation of the Buddhism saga "Journey to the West". Stranded five centuries in the past, Joker Monkey King must battle a variety of monsters, seductive women and super-powered villains to save the dying Pak Jing-Jing.
Cheaper by the Dozen (2003) WikiData IMDb TMDB Douban
Cheaper by the Dozen
★ 6.6 (51 ratings) director: 肖恩·利维 actor: 史蒂夫·马丁 / 邦尼·亨特 …
other title: 열두 명의 웬수들 / 12人のパパ …
The Baker brood moves to Chicago after patriarch Tom gets a job coaching football at Northwestern University, forcing his writer wife, Mary, and the couple's 12 children to make a major adjustment. The transition works well until work demands pull the parents away from home, leaving the kids bored -- and increasingly mischievous.
50 First Dates (2004)
50 First Dates
★ 7.5 (496 ratings) director: 彼得·西格尔 actor: 亚当·桑德勒 / 德鲁·巴里摩尔 …
other title: 初恋50次 / 初恋五十次 …
Henry is a player skilled at seducing women. But when this veterinarian meets Lucy, a girl with a quirky problem when it comes to total recall, he realizes it's possible to fall in love all over again…and again, and again. That's because the delightful Lucy has no short-term memory, so Henry must woo her day after day until he finally sweeps her off her feet.
Mr. & Mrs. Smith (2005)
Mr. & Mrs. Smith
★ 7.3 (1155 ratings) director: 道格·里曼 actor: 布拉德·皮特 / 安吉丽娜·朱莉 …
other title: 史密斯夫妇 / 史密斯行动 …
After five (or six) years of vanilla-wedded bliss, ordinary suburbanites John and Jane Smith are stuck in a huge rut. Unbeknownst to each other, they are both coolly lethal, highly-paid assassins working for rival organisations. When they discover they're each other's next target, their secret lives collide in a spicy, explosive mix of wicked comedy, pent-up passion, nonstop action and high-tech weaponry.
蔡康永的說話之道 Douban
★ 7.5 (31 ratings) author: 蔡康永 publishing house: 如何出版社有限公司 2010 - 4
★蔡康永的第一本實用書!40篇短文,都是讓談話變美味的醍醐味。
「我不在乎說話之術,而在意說話之道。我的說話之道,就是把你放在心上。」
★把說話練好,是最划算的事。
因為怎麼說,決定你是誰;說對了話,人生節目就由你主持!
★侯文詠:看電視只是聽「道」,要讀書才能知「道」、學「道」、做「道」、掌握康永的說話之道。
★職業婦女小S:做自己跟沒禮貌常常就是一線之間,每次聽到別人說:「我這個人說話就是比較直。」我就開始冒汗,因為接下來一定會有一些被他歸類為直其實挺刺耳的話出現,例如:「你今天氣色怎麼這麼差?」「最近胖囉?」「怎麼還不結婚?」「你記得我嗎?」(已經面露尷尬還死不報上名)
跟康永哥聊天絕對不會被刺傷,還被他附帶的一兩句小誇獎逗得心花怒放,但又感覺那麼真誠不滑頭,讓人不愛都難!
如果因為懂得說話交到好朋友,又可讓人開心,為什麼不?
沒有條列式的說話技術,40篇短文,都是讓談話變美味的醍醐味
█從環境猜測人的個性:如果我初次跟別人碰面,約見的地點牆上是有鏡子的,我會儘量讓對方坐在可以照鏡子的位置,這樣就可以看看對方在和你談話的過程中,是對你比較有興趣,還是對鏡子裡面地自己的倒影比較有興趣。
█尖銳問題怎麼開口:問題很尖銳,可以把心裡假設的事,倒推回去兩三步來問。比方說,假設對方在吸毒,倒推回去兩三步:吸毒是因為他不快樂嗎?是因為離婚嗎?可能可以這樣問對方:「離婚以後,是不是過得很痛苦?」之後再問到「所以你有在吸毒?」這樣對方就不會那麼難以承受,他知道你是關心,而不是在審問。
█話題卡住怎麼辦:談話卻卡住的話,其實不必用力挽救,另開一個話題即可。如果在相聚的兩小時裡面,你有三次讓對方開心的笑,那對方應該是絕對不會記得你曾經提過幾個無聊的話題的。
█說話的爆點不要藏在最後:你如果習慣把爆點藏在故事的後面,可能聽你說話的人,熬不了那麼久,就紛紛陣亡了。一個大家不熟的畫家,如果用「兩個手掌大的畫,就能賣兩三百萬」來介紹不是更吸引人?
█讓對方聊自己,他就會覺得有趣:不要說出「我」字。每次想說「我」字時,都改成「你」字或「他」字。你會發現自己,忽然變成一個不斷把話題丟給對方、讓對方暢所欲言的、超級上道的人!
█講好笑故事,不講笑話:講話幽默的人,就像走路好看的人,你跟她走在一起,會覺得很平常的走路,也是賞心樂事。而講笑話比較像翻跟斗,翻得好不好姑且不說,但其實很少人喜歡跟一個沒事就翻跟斗的人一起走路的。
█讚美:別人罵你一句,你回罵他一句,這就叫吵架。別人讚美你一句,你回一句讚美,這就叫社交。
█不想交淺言深的話,應該避開的地雷:第一,對方很容易有苦衷的、不方便對不熟的人說的。第二,是對方很容易有強硬立場的,談起來容易起爭執的。
█聽懂就問得到:因為人說話,常常是「語帶保留」、或者「話中有話」,你只聽字面的意思,就做決定,恐怕機會就跑掉了。
█讓自己的問題短,對方的回答長:問的問題越具體,回答的人越省力。回答的人越省力,她就越有力氣和你聊下去。
█尖銳問題也可營造談話氣氛:適度的挑釁,絕對能讓談話熱絡,因為每個人都希望自己的意見被重視、被探討,而不是被一個完全沒原則的人敷衍了事的點頭稱是、應付過去。
█沒興趣怎麼接話:遇上對方提起了一個你完全不想接的話題,不必急著要抵抗,而是輕巧的把對方熱衷的話題,連接到一個很生活的方向,就行了。
█懸疑,讓人想聽下去:跟朋友轉述一件事的時候,每講個幾句,就稍稍停一下,看你朋友會不會問「然後呢?」「後來呢?」如果有這樣追問,就表示你敘述事情的方法是吸引人的,但如果你停頓一下,你朋友卻想都不想,就把話題轉去別的地方,那就表示你講得很沒意思。
█安慰別人:人真的很難「了解另一個人所受的苦」。如果不能了解,就不要這樣說,因為當事人向你傾訴的時候,她只需要你聽,也許她也很需要你給她一點建議,但她可能不需要另一個人宣稱有別人懂她的苦。
目錄
自序 我的說話之道
侯文詠.小S怎麼說?
01 本書是讓很討人喜歡的你,在未來更討人喜歡
02 你說什麼樣的話,你就是什麼樣的人
03 外表好不好看,絕對不是人生的決勝點
04 沈默沒問題的,沈默很正常的
05 把無謂的勝利丟給對方,懂得認輸的人會說話
06 把對方看在眼裡,放在心裡
07 不會Game Over,讓人接得下去的話
08 話題卡住了,就換話題,不要戀棧
09 問的問題越具體,回答的人越省力
10 聊天時,每個人都想聊自己的感覺
11 問題很尖銳,可以倒推回去兩三步
12 適度的挑釁,絕對能讓談話熱絡
13 不想交淺言深的話,應該避開的地雷
14 硬生生的報出數字,很難給人留下印象
15 是去應酬,不是去打牌,談話空檔是很重要的
16 大部分人心中都會充滿問號──懸疑式說話
17 把故事爆點藏在後面,很容易讓人陣亡
18 幽默像走路,講笑話像翻跟斗
19 傾聽之外,適時重覆對方句中的關鍵字眼
20 帶來驚嘆號,就會留下深刻的印象
21 交談不是有獎金的競賽,別急著搶答
22 初次見面,應該說什麼?
23 讚賞,觀察對方最渴望的部分
24 自問自答,站在對方的立場來想
25 在台上,把人當西瓜就糟了
26 樂在其中,跟長輩「湊趣」
27 如果碰到對方,要求你跟他站在同一陣線
28 爛話題,就像默默的聞到有人放了一個屁
29 你不是英國女王,離場不必驚動大家
30 一個人很難「了解另一個人所受的苦」
31 開口找人幫忙時,要「大事化小」
32 怎麼說,讓人不原諒你都難
33 只聽字面的意思就做決定,恐怕機會就跑掉了
34 別人讚美你一句,你就回一句讚美
35 是在鞏固友誼?還是增加彼此的冷漠?
36 黑手黨為什麼要開餐廳?環境是線索
37 聚會只顧炒熱氣氛,不一定上道
38 招待客人別只用錢不用心
39 說話別像網球發射機,只顧發射沒感情
40 傳達感情,不只是要會說話
March 21, 2013 read
我记得什么时候看得,但是记不得是讲什么了。。。哎,所以只能给三星= =
大学 台湾 随笔/散文
有一天啊,宝宝…… Douban
★ 8.6 (53 ratings) author: 蔡康永 publishing house: 当代世界出版社 2006 - 7
这是蔡康永在节目搭档小S怀孕期间,以和小S未出生的宝宝聊天的语气写作并结集出版的随笔集。篇篇短小精湛,充满着智慧与禅机,早已超越了对特定人和物的看法,而上升到了对人生的感悟。
蔡康永对生活的态度,有时轻松有时庄重;蔡康永看见的世界,有时荒谬有时缤纷。透过蔡康永最深情最温柔的文字,你将发现,原来人生是这么精彩好玩的!
March 21, 2013 read
看这个书的时候 午后坐在交换的学校门口的树下面 看完起来一裤子蚂蚁 加州的阳光真好呀。
台湾 生活 大学 图书馆
Jumanji (1995)
Jumanji
★ 8.0 (420 ratings) director: Joe Johnston actor: Robin Williams / Jonathan Hyde …
other title: 勇敢者的游戏 / 逃出魔幻紀 …
When siblings Judy and Peter discover an enchanted board game that opens the door to a magical world, they unwittingly invite Alan -- an adult who's been trapped inside the game for 26 years -- into their living room. Alan's only hope for freedom is to finish the game, which proves risky as all three find themselves running from giant rhinoceroses, evil monkeys and other terrifying creatures.
Green Lantern (2011)
Green Lantern
★ 5.4 (269 ratings) director: 马丁·坎贝尔 actor: 瑞安·雷诺兹 / 布蕾克·莱弗利 …
other title: 그린 랜턴: 반지의 선택 / グリーン・ランタン …
For centuries, a small but powerful force of warriors called the Green Lantern Corps has sworn to keep intergalactic order. Each Green Lantern wears a ring that grants him superpowers. But when a new enemy called Parallax threatens to destroy the balance of power in the Universe, their fate and the fate of Earth lie in the hands of the first human ever recruited.
I Am Number Four (2011)
I Am Number Four
★ 5.8 (161 ratings) director: D·J·卡卢索 actor: 亚历克斯·帕蒂弗 / 蒂莫西·奥利芬特 …
other title: 关键第四号 / 猎杀第四行者(台) …
A teenage fugitive with an incredible secret races to stay one step ahead of the mysterious forces seeking destroy him in this sci-fi action thriller. With three dead and one on the run, the race to find the elusive Number Four begins. Outwardly normal teen John Smith never gets too comfortable in the same identity, and along with his guardian, Henri, he is constantly moving from town to town. With each passing day, John gains a stronger grasp on his extraordinary new powers, and his bond to the beings that share his fantastic fate grows stronger.
The Island (2005)
The Island
★ 6.7 (372 ratings) director: 迈克尔·贝 actor: 伊万·麦克格雷格 / 斯嘉丽·约翰逊 …
other title: 逃出克隆岛 / 谎岛叛变(港) …
In 2019, Lincoln Six-Echo is a resident of a seemingly "Utopian" but contained facility. Like all of the inhabitants of this carefully-controlled environment, Lincoln hopes to be chosen to go to The Island — reportedly the last uncontaminated location on the planet. But Lincoln soon discovers that everything about his existence is a lie.
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (2005)
The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy
★ 8.1 (844 ratings) director: 加思·詹宁斯 actor: 马丁·弗瑞曼 / 亚辛·贝 …
other title: 银河系漫游指南 / 星际大奇航 …
Mere seconds before the Earth is to be demolished by an alien construction crew, Arthur Dent is swept off the planet by his friend Ford Prefect, a researcher penning a new edition of "The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy."
Captain America: The First Avenger (2011)
Captain America: The First Avenger
★ 6.5 (1112 ratings) director: Joe Johnston actor: Chris Evans / Hayley Atwell …
other title: 美国队长 / 美国队长:复仇者先锋 …
During World War II, Steve Rogers is a sickly man from Brooklyn who's transformed into super-soldier Captain America to aid in the war effort. Rogers must stop the Red Skull – Adolf Hitler's ruthless head of weaponry, and the leader of an organization that intends to use a mysterious device of untold powers for world domination.
Feb. 25, 2013 watched
03/13/19重看。每次看到错过一辈子的约会就好伤感。原来美队本会和钢铁侠的爸爸成为好盆友和战友的呀……
美国 科幻 电影 动作 大学