心理学
愛的藝術
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佛洛姆 translator: 孟祥森 publishing house: 志文 1993 - 2
「愛」--是天性,是每個人都需要的--需要給予愛和接受愛。惟有通過彼此的愛和諒解,人類才能緊緊結合在一起,以渡過目前世界性的危機。
没有疆界
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[美] 肯·威尔伯 translator: 许金声 publishing house: 中国人民大学出版社 2012 - 3
《没有疆界》一本通俗易懂,内容丰富、广泛的入门书,它包括了东西方现有的各种心理学和心理治疗流派,从精神分析到禅学,从格式塔心理学到超越性静修,从存在主义到密宗哲学,无所不有。在这本书中,作者对人类意识进行了一次全新的、浅显易懂的描绘,并介绍、解释了与之相对应的各种疗法。在每一章中,作者都给出了具体的练习,以帮助人们理解每种疗法的本质和实用性。
改变,从心开始
Emotional Balance: The Path to Inner Peace and Harmony Douban
★ 8.4 5 ratings
[荷] 罗伊·马丁纳 translator: 胡因梦 publishing house: 云南人民出版社 2009 - 8
《改变,从心开始:学会情绪平衡的方法》的作者罗伊•马丁纳是另类医学专家,是真正懂得身心平衡的实修者。主张从身心灵各个角度探讨情绪:第一部分“行动中的能量”,主要介绍情绪平衡技巧背后的基本观念,探索人类天性的多重面性,以及身体为什么是精神与物质之间的连结点或交叉点;第二部分“实际的情绪平衡技巧”则将这些技巧的运用方式,运用到实际的情绪管理上,帮助大家达到身体与情绪的健康平衡状态。本书除了理论探讨外,更提供了大量案例供读者参考,使我们更容易了解并将之运用到生活中,为自己创造内在的真正平静。 罗伊•马丁纳博士的情绪平衡技巧是管理情绪最快见效的方法之一。持续练习情绪平衡技巧,将使你学会以不压抑的方式,辨识、认知、接纳并协调你的情绪,成为情绪的主人。你的生活将变得更轻松平顺,开始吸引不同类型的人,并创造新的人生情境。 我们本身要为创造内在的祥和负责,没有人能为我们达成这个目的。在生命中塑造出内在的祥和与和谐的唯一方法,就是让自己更接近自己的心灵。最初这可能需要投资一些时间和努力,可是请记住:你在自己身上投资越多,得到的回报越高。要达到“不工作的显化层次”只有一个办法,就是以聪明的方式工作。每天花费短短的十五或二十分钟时间,持续练习情绪平衡技巧,你的生活会变得更轻松更平衡,并且开始吸引不同类型的人和新的情境。 幸福快乐是一种选择,情绪平衡是一种能力。
宅腐控心理学
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慕容 publishing house: 中国友谊出版公司 2014 - 3
※国内首部宅腐控萌基人群的心理书,囊括传统心理学未涉及的新生心理现象 ※绝对颠覆三观之作:令人目瞪口呆的心理现象+有趣案例+心理师精神分析 瓶邪到底邪不邪? 宅人与传统的社交障碍/恐惧有什么不同? 中二病是精神分裂的一种吗? 萝莉控与恋童癖心理本质不同在哪? 女汉子、伪娘与性别认同障碍有什么区别? …… 这里有最新出现的最流行现象,这年头,不说自己有点宅、有点腐、有点控,你好意思跟人打招呼? 分析传统心理学从未说透的心理动机,宅腐控萌基背后,隐藏着怎样的心理秘密? 这是在读懂你身边的人,也是在解读自己,宅人、腐女、萝莉控、微博控、颜控……百腐千宅万控无数萌,你属于哪一种? 最新最广泛的心理现象+爆笑有趣的案例+心理师给力精神分析=宅腐控心理学
当哲学家遇上心理医生
The Shrink and the Sage:A guide to living Douban
[英]朱利安·巴吉尼 / [英]安东尼娅·麦卡洛 translator: 裘白莲 publishing house: 中信出版社 2013 - 9
《当哲学家遇上心理医生》是著名TED演讲人、英国畅销哲普天王、《你以为你以为的就是你以为的吗》作者朱利安·巴吉尼的又一力作。《当哲学家遇上心理医生》,用哲学和心理学帮助你摆脱人生中的痛苦、纠结和困惑。 为什么追求完美的生活却越来越混乱? 为什么一直追赶目标,却永远是失败者? 为什么信奉婚姻忠诚却无法抗拒诱惑? 为什么下定决心后总是无法坚持到底? …… 一如我们所知,现实中的人生一点都不安稳,处处是困境,时刻在挣扎。无论是努力、颓废、懈怠、争取、舍弃……无论怎样的自己都无法摆脱昨天的困境。因为人生是流动的,只要活一天,就有一天的困境。 英国畅销书作家、哲学家朱利安•巴吉尼与英国著名心理治疗师安东尼娅•麦卡洛,在《当哲学家遇上心理医生》中,为所有想要摆脱人生困境的读者,献上最精妙的哲学智慧与最有效的心理疗法。他们为绝大多数人都会有的20个人生困惑给出了精彩解答,带给你以哲学和心理学为原料的人生疗愈“处方”。
洗脑术
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★ 6.0 10 ratings
[美] 高德 publishing house: 江苏文艺出版社 2013 - 3
这是一部让你变得更加聪明的书,它是一场头脑风暴,注定改变你的思维逻辑。 作者结合15年经验5万份资料3000次实验调查,从心理学上解读世界各隐秘部门、知名的领导人物都是通过什么样的手段、理念与程序把自己变成一个宗教,在跟不同的角色合作时都能有逻辑地说服对方、说服一个团队甚至说服一个国家,这里面到底隐藏着怎样的秘密。 同时,作者让你从本质上全面了解洗脑真相,让你能够从根源上学会区分:什么样的洗脑是一种激励,什么样的洗脑是个美妙的陷阱,作为我们个人如何获取“洗脑术”里的正能量,并巧妙运用到人际沟通、高端谈判、公关危机、品牌营销、企业管理、情感对话等日常生活的方方面面!
工具
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菲尔‧施图茨(Phil Stutz)&巴瑞‧麦克尔斯(Barry Michels) translator: 王莉莉 publishing house: 中国联合出版社 2013 - 1
本书由两位资历合计超过60年的哈佛心理学专家巴里和菲尔合作完成,与其他通俗心理学读物的最大不同在于,它不再仅仅停留在心理分析的层面,而是给读者改变的方法,花上三五秒钟便能完全掌握。 书中讲述了解决问题的五大工具,比如将逃避痛苦的渴望转变为面对痛苦的渴望;将焦虑不安转变为对自我的肯定;有效地控制负面情绪;培养长久的意志力等。如果你有逃避的习惯,如果你想控制上瘾和冲动的行为,如果你想学习如何在怒火中烧时冷静地为自己争取权益,如果你的负面想法已经阻止你前行……那面你需要《工具》。 这些工具曾帮一个连剧本都写不完的人获得奥斯卡奖;帮一些不入流的演员变成大明星;把很多内向自卑的人变成了社交达人;让那些想成功,但总是遭受羞辱的人找到了对的路径;并让无数感情不顺的人找到了真爱……它让全世界的人获得了对抗艰难生活的勇气和方法。《出版人周刊》甚至断言:《工具》将是身心修行或励志书出版史上唯一可以超越《秘密》的作品。 媒体评价: 巴里·米歇尔斯取用荣格心理学的深奥格言,与他的导师施图茨一起开发出了一套释放无意识中的创造力,解决他们的客户遇到的难题的方案。他们每小时收费至少360美元。他与施图茨合写了书稿《工具》。如果说畅销励志书《秘密》许诺通过显灵来致富——想象一堆金子,它就会出现,《工具》给出的福音更适合期望成功,但总是遭遇羞辱和失败的人。——《三联生活周刊》 巴里和菲尔已是好莱坞的“公开秘密”,他们所发展出来的工具,让人可以取用深藏潜意识中的创造力……假如《秘密》这本史上最畅销的励志书,承诺透过观想来致富,《工具》则是曾经受挫者的成功福音。——《纽约客》 《工具》被兰登书屋以200万美元的价格买下了英语、德语和西班牙语的版权。该书是由美国的两位精神治疗师巴里·米歇尔斯和菲尔·施图茨合作,以提供读者如何对待愤怒、焦虑和不安全感的方法。该书还将以拍卖形式售出其在荷兰、以色列和巴西的版权,而在意大利、克罗地亚、塞尔维亚、韩国和希腊的版权也已被买走。——《出版参考》 借由强而有力的观想练习,巴里和菲尔发展出一种快速且有效的自我成长技巧……这套清楚、容易使用的方法,加上“更高驱力真实存在”的信念,是个必胜组合。——《出版人周刊》 在经济不甚景气的2012年,《工具》让全世界的人获得了对抗艰难生活的勇气和方法。《出版人周刊》甚至断言:《工具》将是身心修行或励志书出版史上唯一可以超越《秘密》的作品。——中新网 我所写下的一切产生力量与功绩的东西,都是透过使用巴里教我的工具而来。那些工具往往违反直觉,有时还很危险,但我只知道,它们改变了我的人生。——斯蒂芬·加汉(奥斯卡最佳改编剧本奖的编剧) 这是一本关于个人成长的开创性书籍,提供了独特而有效的五大工具,为你带来强而有力的改变……这本书里的信息太让我惊讶,太让我兴奋了,我一定要和我所有的家人分享。——梅曼·欧兹(热门节目《欧兹医生秀》主持人) 作者菲尔·施图茨是最高等级的炼金术大师!——约翰·库萨克(好莱坞影星)
活出意义来
Man's search for meaning Douban Goodreads
★ 8.5 16 ratings
[奥地利] 维克多·弗兰克 translator: 赵可式 / 沈锦惠 publishing house: 生活·读书·新知三联书店 1998 - 1
本书以作者的集中营经历为本,揭示人类生命的动力在于寻出意义;人只要参透为何而活,即能承受任何煎熬;而无论处境如何,亦皆有自由抉择的余地。本书深入浅出,但振聋发聩人人可读。自出版迄今,轰动全球,堪称为研究人类心理学与精神不可不读的一本经典之作。
怪诞心理学2
Paranormality : why we see what isn't there Douban
★ 7.5 11 ratings
[英] 理查德·怀斯曼 translator: 蒋涛 publishing house: 湖南文艺出版社 2011 - 8
超自然现象、第六感、通灵术、魔法、先知、普通魔术,江湖骗术,这些是我们的心理幻觉,还是未知世界的本来面目? 为了探索超自然现象的秘密,不少科学家献出了毕生的精力。在一系列奇特研究中,有人取下世界顶级读心术士的脑袋,有人潜入邪教组织,有人测试一只据说会说话的猫鼬,还有人试图为垂死者的灵魂称重…… 而这次,也是首次,心理学家理查德·怀斯曼教授通过数百个科学实验揭秘灵异世界的真实谎言,并用大量的实战练习,用科学速成你的心理魔法表演。
思考, 快与慢
Thinking, Fast and Slow
★ 7.6 103 ratings
Daniel Kahneman / 李爱民 translator: 胡晓姣 / 李爱民 … publishing house: 中信出版社 2012 - 7 other title: 思考,快与慢
本书介绍了很多经典有趣的行为实验, 指出我们在什么情况下可以相信自己的直觉, 什么时候不能相信;指导我们如何在商场, 职场和个人生活中做出更好的选择, 以及如何运用不同技巧来避免那些常常使我们陷入麻烦的思维失误.
我能让你睡
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保罗·麦肯纳 translator: 李尼 2011 - 1
《我能让你睡》和附带的CD所讲的方法,要使你的生活发生巨大变化!如果你:失眠、睡不踏实、思绪烦乱、半夜醒来……那就请阅读这本书及附带的催眠CD吧!人一生中有三分之一的时间需要在睡眠中度过,但是,现在有越来越多的人却饱受失眠之苦。国际畅销书作家兼心理放松大师保罗•麦肯纳博士花了20年时间研究如何解决睡眠问题,成绩斐然。他研究出一套简便易行的独特方法,人人都可利用这套方法改善睡眠质量。在《我能让你睡》这本书里,他让我们看到,一些轻松的练习和简单的思维及行为变化,就能对睡眠产生重大影响。这本书和附带的即时催眠CD里所说的一切事情,就跟我们坐下来当面催眠的效果一样。事实上,阅读这本书的时候,你也许就会感到昏昏欲睡了。
生命对你意味着什么
What life should mean to you Douban
[奥地利] 阿尔弗雷德·阿德勒 translator: 李心明 publishing house: 江苏人民出版社 2012 - 1
《生命对你意味着什么》是一本帮你超越自我的生命启示录。生命,从出生的那刻起,就被赋予了某种意义。心灵、肉体、记忆、梦、职业、同伴与婚姻,这些生命中最重要的元素,像是某种神秘的图腾,围绕着你,企图帮助你改变命运。《生命对你意味着什么》作者心理学大师阿德勒一生都致力于解密这些元素带给人的重大影响,并首次提出“自卑情结”的概念。自卑既能摧毁人也能成就人,利用好它,你便能挖掘内心的巨大潜能,在庸碌的人生中脱颖而出。
你是一只黑天鹅
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罗布·杨 translator: 张猛 2011 - 9
你最大的财富就是你自己——充分发挥这份财富做最好的自己。 不论你是想在职位上不断攀升,还是想开辟自己的事业;做更好的父母,做最红的音乐家或是艺术家,本书都可以帮助你在自己选择的道路上获得成功。 我们每个人都是独一无二的。我们都有自己独特的性格和个性,我们可以利用它们来推动自己前进。成功的关键是知道自己擅长什么,知道如何发挥自己的优势。本书告诉你如何做到。 通过《你是一只黑天鹅》,你将更加了解自己的优势和弱势,学会如何抓住能够充分发挥你天分、让你做到最好的机会。 《你是一只黑天鹅》由罗布·杨博士编著。
Thinking, Fast and Slow
Thinking, Fast and Slow Douban Goodreads Skybridge
★ 8.4 43 ratings
Daniel Kahneman publishing house: Farrar, Straus and Giroux 2011 - 10
Major New York Times bestseller Winner of the National Academy of Sciences Best Book Award in 2012 Selected by the New York Times Book Review as one of the best books of 2011 A Globe and Mail Best Books of the Year 2011 Title One of The Economist’s 2011 Books of the Year One of The Wall Street Journal's Best Nonfiction Books of the Year 2011 In the international bestseller, Thinking, Fast and Slow, Daniel Kahneman, the renowned psychologist and winner of the Nobel Prize in Economics, takes us on a groundbreaking tour of the mind and explains the two systems that drive the way we think. System 1 is fast, intuitive, and emotional; System 2 is slower, more deliberative, and more logical. The impact of overconfidence on corporate strategies, the difficulties of predicting what will make us happy in the future, the profound effect of cognitive biases on everything from playing the stock market to planning our next vacation—each of these can be understood only by knowing how the two systems shape our judgments and decisions. Engaging the reader in a lively conversation about how we think, Kahneman reveals where we can and cannot trust our intuitions and how we can tap into the benefits of slow thinking. He offers practical and enlightening insights into how choices are made in both our business and our personal lives—and how we can use different techniques to guard against the mental glitches that often get us into trouble. Winner of the National Academy of Sciences Best Book Award and the Los Angeles Times Book Prize and selected by The New York Times Book Review as one of the ten best books of 2011, Thinking, Fast and Slow is destined to be a classic. One of the New York Times Book Review's Top 10 Books of 2011 Editorial Reviews Amazon.com Review Amazon Best Books of the Month, November 2011: Drawing on decades of research in psychology that resulted in a Nobel Prize in Economic Sciences, Daniel Kahneman takes readers on an exploration of what influences thought example by example, sometimes with unlikely word pairs like "vomit and banana." System 1 and System 2, the fast and slow types of thinking, become characters that illustrate the psychology behind things we think we understand but really don't, such as intuition. Kahneman's transparent and careful treatment of his subject has the potential to change how we think, not just about thinking, but about how we live our lives. Thinking, Fast and Slow gives deep--and sometimes frightening--insight about what goes on inside our heads: the psychological basis for reactions, judgments, recognition, choices, conclusions, and much more. --JoVon Sotak Review “A tour de force. . . Kahneman’s book is a must read for anyone interested in either human behavior or investing. He clearly shows that while we like to think of ourselves as rational in our decision making, the truth is we are subject to many biases. At least being aware of them will give you a better chance of avoiding them, or at least making fewer of them.”—Larry Swedroe, CBS News “Daniel Kahneman demonstrates forcefully in his new book, Thinking, Fast and Slow, how easy it is for humans to swerve away from rationality.”—Christopher Shea, The Washington Post “An outstanding book, distinguished by beauty and clarity of detail, precision of presentation and gentleness of manner. Its truths are open to all those whose System 2 is not completely defunct. I have hardly touched on its richness.”— Galen Strawson, The Guardian “Brilliant . . . It is impossible to exaggerate the importance of Daniel Kahneman’s contribution to the understanding of the way we think and choose. He stands among the giants, a weaver of the threads of Charles Darwin, Adam Smith and Sigmund Freud. Arguably the most important psychologist in history, Kahneman has reshaped cognitive psychology, the analysis of rationality and reason, the understanding of risk and the study of happiness and well-being . . . A magisterial work, stunning in its ambition, infused with knowledge, laced with wisdom, informed by modesty and deeply humane. If you can read only one book this year, read this one.”— Janice Gross Stein, The Globe and Mail “A sweeping, compelling tale of just how easily our brains are bamboozled, bringing in both his own research and that of numerous psychologists, economists, and other experts...Kahneman has a remarkable ability to take decades worth of research and distill from it what would be important and interesting for a lay audience...Thinking, Fast and Slow is an immensely important book. Many science books are uneven, with a useful or interesting chapter too often followed by a dull one. Not so here. With rare exceptions, the entire span of this weighty book is fascinating and applicable to day-to-day life. Everyone should read Thinking, Fast and Slow.” —Jesse Singal, Boston Globe “We must be grateful to Kahneman for giving us in this book a joyful understanding of the practical side of our personalities.” —Freeman Dyson, The New York Review of Books “Brilliant . . . It is impossible to exaggerate the importance of Daniel Kahneman’s contribution to the understanding of the way we think and choose. He stands among the giants, a weaver of the threads of Charles Darwin, Adam Smith and Sigmund Freud. Arguably the most important psychologist in history, Kahneman has reshaped cognitive psychology, the analysis of rationality and reason, the understanding of risk and the study of happiness and well-being . . . A magisterial work, stunning in its ambition, infused with knowledge, laced with wisdom, informed by modesty and deeply humane. If you can read only one book this year, read this one.” — Janice Gross Stein, The Globe and Mail “It is an astonishingly rich book: lucid, profound, full of intellectual surprises and self-help value. It is consistently entertaining and frequently touching, especially when Kahneman is recounting his collaboration with Tversky . . . So impressive is its vision of flawed human reason that the New York Times columnist David Brooks recently declared that Kahneman and Tversky’s work ‘will be remembered hundreds of years from now,’ and that it is ‘a crucial pivot point in the way we see ourselves.’ They are, Brooks said, ‘like the Lewis and Clark of the mind’ . . . By the time I got to the end of Thinking, Fast and Slow, my skeptical frown had long since given way to a grin of intellectual satisfaction. Appraising the book by the peak-end rule, I overconfidently urge everyone to buy and read it. But for those who are merely interested in Kahenman’s takeaway on the Malcolm Gladwell question it is this: If you've had 10,000 hours of training in a predictable, rapid-feedback environment—chess, firefighting, anesthesiology—then blink. In all other cases, think.”—The New York Times Book Review “Ask around and you hear pretty much the same thing. 'Kahneman is the most influential psychologist since Sigmund Freud,' says Christopher Chabris, a professor of psychology at Union College, in New York. 'No one else has had such a broad impact on so many fields' . . . It now seems inevitable that Kahneman, who made his reputation by ignoring or defying conventional wisdom, is about to be anointed the intellectual guru of our economically irrational times.”— Evan R. Goldstein, The Chronicle of Higher Education “There have been many good books on human rationality and irrationality, but only one masterpiece. That masterpiece is Daniel Kahneman’s Thinking, Fast and Slow . . . This is one of the greatest and most engaging collections of insights into the human mind I have read.”—William Easterly, Financial Times “[Thinking, Fast and Slow] is wonderful, of course. To anyone with the slightest interest in the workings of his own mind, it is so rich and fascinating that any summary would seem absurd.”— Michael Lewis, Vanity Fair “Absorbingly articulate and infinitely intelligent . . . What's most enjoyable and compelling about Thinking, Fast and Slow is that it's so utterly, refreshingly anti-Gladwellian. There is nothing pop about Kahneman's psychology, no formulaic story arc, no beating you over the head with an artificial, buzzword-encrusted Big Idea. It's just the wisdom that comes from five decades of honest, rigorous scientific work, delivered humbly yet brilliantly, in a way that will forever change the way you think about thinking.”—Maria Popova, The Atlantic “I will never think about thinking quite the same. [Thinking, Fast and Slow] is a monumental achievement.”—Roger Lowenstein, Bloomberg/Businessweek “Profound . . . As Copernicus removed the Earth from the centre of the universe and Darwin knocked humans off their biological perch, Mr. Kahneman has shown that we are not the paragons of reason we assume ourselves to be.” —The Economist “[Kahneman’s] disarmingly simple experiments have profoundly changed the way that we think about thinking . . . We like to see ourselves as a Promethean species, uniquely endowed with the gift of reason. But Mr. Kahneman’s simple experiments reveal a very different mind, stuffed full of habits that, in most situations, lead us astray.” —Jonah Lehrer, The Wall Street Journal “[A] tour de force of psychological insight, research explication and compelling narrative that brings together in one volume the high points of Mr. Kahneman's notable contributions, over five decades, to the study of human judgment, decision-making and choice . . . Thanks to the elegance and force of his ideas, and the robustness of the evidence he offers for them, he has helped us to a new understanding of our divided minds—and our whole selves.” —Christoper F. Chabris, The Wall Street Journal “The ramifications of Kahenman’s work are wide, extending into education, business, marketing, politics . . . and even happiness research. Call his field “psychonomics,” the hidden reasoning behind our choices. Thinking, Fast and Slow is essential reading for anyone with a mind.” —Kyle Smith, The New York Post “A major intellectual event . . . The work of Kahneman and Tversky was a crucial pivot point in the way we see ourselves.” —David Brooks, The New York Times “Kahneman provides a detailed, yet accessible, description of the psychological mechanisms involved in making decisions.” —Jacek Debiec, Nature “With Kahneman’s expert help, readers may understand this mix of psychology and economics better than most accountants, therapists, or elected representatives. VERDICT A stellar accomplishment, a book for everyone who likes to think and wants to do it better.” —Library Journal “The mind is a hilariously muddled compromise between incompatible modes of thought in this fascinating treatise by a giant in the field of decision research. Nobel-winning psychologist Kahneman (Attention and Effort) posits a brain governed by two clashing decision-making processes. The largely unconscious System 1, he contends, makes intuitive snap judgments based on emotion, memory, and hard-wired rules of thumb; the painfully conscious System 2 laboriously checks the facts and does the math, but is so "lazy" and distractible that it usually defers to System 1. Kahneman uses this scheme to frame a scintillating discussion of his findings in cognitive psychology and behavioral economics, and of the ingenious experiments that tease out the irrational, self-contradictory logics that underlie our choices. We learn why we mistake statistical noise for cohere...
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有中文版么?那个图书公司好心引进一下。
心理学
比神更快乐
Douban
[美国] 尼尔·唐纳德·沃尔什 translator: 谢明宪 publishing house: 华文出版社 2010 - 5
吸引力法则外,有一个更大的生命法则,你不可不知! 很多人成功的运用《秘密》,创造了自己想要的人生;却也有人始终不得其门而入,本书给你关键的真相和钥匙。 继震惊世界的《与神对话》三部曲后,尼尔最受读者推崇的一本书! 因《与神对话》三部曲而享誉全球的畅销作家尼尔•唐纳德•沃尔什认为,在《秘密》一书所提的吸引力法则背后,有一个更大的生命法则,他称之为个人创造法。这个法则包括五个方面: 1.吸引力能量——给你力量 2.对立法则——给你契机 3.天赋智慧——给你洞察力 4.神奇的喜悦之道——给你想象力 5.循环之道——给你永恒性 在生活中实践这个法则,你可以创造非凡的人生体验,甚至可以比神更快乐。
生命的清单
Sum: Forty Tales from the Afterlives Douban
★ 7.4 13 ratings
大卫·伊格曼 translator: 赵海波 publishing house: 中信出版社 2010 - 2
《生命的清单:关于来世的40种景象》是一本对来生景象进行神奇刻画的短小说集。在这些对生命秘密的终极奇想中,死后世界可能是在世所有经验的重新经历,但顺序重组,同样的事一次做个够,例如连续做爱七个月、冲澡200天。我们可能是负责支撑宇宙空间的巨人,所谓人类的一生,只是个短暂的休假。又或者,我们会惊喜地发现,可以自由选择变成另一种动物重回世界,做出选择后却发现好像不大对劲。并且,在来世生活中的上帝也有各种人类的性格和喜怒哀乐,遭遇到各种窘境。《生命的清单:关于来世的40种景象》里的每个奇想都让人拍案叫绝,看完后又叫人忍不住一再深思。每种来世景象都反照今生生活,提醒我们,生命本身就是一场醒着的梦,活好今生,才是最现实最重要的。
十个天才的精神病史
Divine Madness:Ten Stories of Creative Struggle Douban
杰弗里·科特勒 translator: 邱文平 / 邵妍 … 2011 - 6
《十个天才的精神病史:关于疯癫、创造和抗争的人生故事》讲述了:为什么一些非凡的人物能够战胜精神痛苦并在疯癫的促使下创作出杰出的创造性艺术呢?《纽约时报》畅销书作家、著名心理学家杰弗里•科特勒在《十个天才的精神病史(关于疯癫创造和抗争的人生故事)》中探讨了这些问题。《十个天才的精神病史(关于疯癫创造和抗争的人生故事)》中描述了许多伟大的艺术家的故事,他们在为成功和生存奋斗过程中经历了情感混乱。 杰弗里•科特勒在书中描述了西尔维娅•普拉思、朱迪•嘉兰、马克• 罗思科、欧内斯特•海明威、弗吉尼娅•吴尔夫、查尔斯•明格斯、瓦斯拉夫•尼金斯基、玛丽莲,梦露、伦尼•布鲁斯、布赖恩•威尔逊等文化巨匠们戏剧性而悲惨的人生。在这本由不同人生连接而成的书中,杰弗里•科特勒着重讲述了这些非凡人物的人生故事,并重点分析了他们是如何突破自己的情感困境的。 《十个天才的精神病史:关于疯癫、创造和抗争的人生故事》清楚地区分了那些屈服于疾病并因此失去生命的人们和那些奋力搏斗并最终康复的人们。书中,科特勒详述了深层次的心理问题是如何影响这些人的生活、工作、伟大的创作和成功,以及他们又是如何奋力达到某种个人稳定的。《十个天才的精神病史:关于疯癫,创造和抗争的人生故事》讲述的这些有趣而又引人入胜的故事帮助我们在这些艺术家不可思议的人生中找到意义。这些故事也为那些奋力突破困境和限制,并试图卓有成效地、创造性地表达自己的人提供灵感。
你爲什麽相信算命師
Douban
石井裕之 translator: 侯詠馨 publishing house: 世茂 2007
本書特色 能使工作、生活、人際關係更順利的冷讀術,這是藉由對話及心理上的溝通技巧去了解別人心意,在瞬間就建立別人對自己的「信賴關係」,進而可以操控他人心理,更能隨心所欲達成自己的目的,也可應用在看破別人的謊言、騙術,加強自我保護。本書適用於常遇到初次見面者的人、為工作或生活上的人際關係煩惱的人、常需要寫EMAIL的人、覺得和別人見面很麻煩甚至為此厭煩的人、想要掌控工作或希望人生遊刃有餘的人。 以下人士務必要讀! .想要讓職場、私人的人際關係更好的人! .想要讓上司、部屬、同事、客戶喜愛歡迎、進一步在工作上有成就的人! .想要讓週遭的人知道自己真實的「魅力與?力」所在的人! .將要「入?」「就職」「轉換職業」等、快樂迎接新生活的人! .希望跟初次見面的人就能熟悉的人! .希望聯誼、相親可以更順利的人! .希望跟「難相處的人」也能愉快應對的人! .希望在面試時、順利展現自己的魅力的人!  ……等等
高难度谈话
Difficult Conversation: How to Discuss what Matters Most Douban
★ 7.3 15 ratings
[美] 道格拉斯·斯通 / 布鲁斯·佩顿 … translator: 王甜甜 publishing house: 中国城市出版社 2011 - 2
道歉;客户迟疑不定;供货商百般刁难;突发的公共关系危机;想让别人帮忙,却难以启齿……教你破解潜藏在高难度谈话中的隐形结构,剖析高难度谈话的三个层次:“发生了什么”对话;情绪对话;自我认知对话。 突破谈话瓶颈,实现完美沟通。 此刻的谈话是如此艰难,但是总会在你毫无准备时不期而至,是面对还是逃避?是的,除了面对,我们别无选择。 曾在南非种族隔离前夜和1980年伊拉克人质事件中参与谈判的美国沟通专家道格拉斯•斯通(Douglas Stone)与闻名世界的“哈佛谈判小组”成员经过15年的潜心研究、数千次的专业咨询,锤炼出破解顶级沟通难题的有力武器——跨越沟通中的最高峰即 “高难度谈话”的哈佛谈话术。 在这本《纽约时报》排行榜的经典畅销书中,你将会通过丰富且极其生活化的案例一步步地学到: ●如何在毫无防备的情况下开始一场高难度对话 ●如何把握高难度谈话的“弦外之音” ●面对正面攻击和指控时如何回应 ●破解潜藏在每一次高难度谈话中的隐形结构 当你突破了沟通中的最艰难时刻,还惧怕什么谈不下来?